are you newly weds? are you in a relationship and thinking of tying the knot? what are some of the discussions you would have with your significant other?
one that has recently crept its way into my talks with my significant other, albeit jokingly (honestly, im taking it a bit seriously) is family planning.
some couples decide to have children, some do not, some cannot. but when it comes to a number, what do you go for? a big family, of more than 4, a small family of just one child, 2, 3?
what are the pro's and con's of each?
i have two brothers, i come from a family where almost everyone i know has a set of 3, which to me, makes perfect sense.
on the one hand, there will be one independent "free-radical", usually the middle child (thats me), and then the eldest takes the youngest under their wing and watches over them.
this seems ideal to me. what about you? how many siblings do you have, how do you interact with them? what do you think is best?
i tried googling having 2-vs-3 kids, but no results would even show up! apparently google is pro singlism