cinnamonape wrote:ODD that there is no mirror of this for widowers.
Actually not, the impression I got from immigration a widower should return to their home country. They allow widows because they may have children, (don't know what about a widower with children - guess he's supposed to take them with him) but when I asked the question at immigration regarding my status if my wife passes. His response was "you go home, lah'. That was when I realized the problem with my plan to remain in Malaysia if my wife passes before me.