My civil partner (>20 years) and I are moving to Hyderabad in the next few months as my partner's company has just given him an international assignment in the city. We're coming on a scouting trip next month to find an apartment and get some idea of what we're getting into. I've lived as an ex-pat in a number of countries in Europe as well as South America.
Frankly the biggest issue is a requirement to climb back into the closet. We've been told that we've got be discreet. I'm not sure whether this means sleeping in different beds, or just not walking around hand-in-hand (not that we do that even in Ken High St). I'm not too phased as I grew-up in the gay sub culture of 1980s London and quite liked the excitement of living a secret life complete with its underground bars and special language (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polari) . However, I would like some practical advice from a local who is gay about where the limits lie. I would also like advice on where to live, how to get an apartment, etc. Can anyone recommend a sympathetic estate agent - i.e. someone who won't try to find us somewhere that is full of happy families and their kids? That said, I would like somewhere with a pool, gym, and good shops. A nearby up-market Country Club with bars and restaurant would be ideal. Any recommendations?
Hopefully, the response wont be - don't come!