So on my first trip to Vietnam I met a girl and saw her for a few days. Being the skeptical dude that I am and knowing nothing about Vietnam, the first night that we met I didn't give her my phone number but she and her friend made plans with my friend for these two ladies to join us the next day.
The next day, I was basically pressured into giving her my LINE contact (not my primary means of communication). Anyway, she messaged me very sweet messages and I responded in a very neutral way because, being jaded, I thought it was a ruse to ask for money later on.
So I went home and communication from her end stopped. I did some research and realised that I might have had the wrong idea. So I messaged her and we chatted for about two weeks - one set of messages per day. Then she just stopped responding.
A week went by and a buddy of mine wanted to check out Vietnam with me. So I called the girl and told her that I'd be flying to the same city and to see whether she'd like to hang out. She seemed surprised and pretty happy.
So I met her for another 5 days, and it was great. We didn't sleep together, but I had a very romantic time, even with the occasional chaperone. Anyway, I left the city again and have told her that I'll be back - although I haven't confirmed a date.
Our messages are back to 1 set of messages per day or two. I guess I'm confused about whether she's interested in me. Her friends and colleagues message me more frequently and send me photos of their daily life. The girl takes lots of photos but doesn't send any to me. I don't use Facebook or Instagram. She uploads to Instagram. I didn't ask for her account.
I should probably add that I'm ethnically Asian and I'm sickly pale - features that are attractive to Vietnamese people apparently. She loves holding my hand and PDA, although she's the no sex before marriage type. She hasn't asked me for money or to buy her anything. She has some jewelry, which I initially suspected was from other foreign boyfriends because she's incredibly attractive (hence my initial hesitation) but I could be well off the mark.
I'm actually quite a bit older than she is, which is another reason why I was worried that she was very much into me. After spending more time with her, I do feel that she's very genuine but I'd like to hear thoughts from Vietnamese people or expats. I do intend to return in a week or two, because I've actually purchased property there (with my friend) and am likely to start a business there.
I guess I'm wondering whether she's taking this seriously and that I should reciprocate. She said that she'll wait for me, and I guess I'll not sure whether this is a big deal for Vietnamese girls. We haven't known each other long and I don't want to be the be guy that's wasting her youth.