I am Korean, born in 1983,
I have been married with a Vietnamese woman for 2 years now. (+1 year of dating)
and we live in Vietnam now.
She is everything I've ever wanted and I thought I totally devoted to her.
I was happy every single day spending time with her.
but maybe it wasn't the case for my wife. We often got fight over small things, usually because she is not please from the way I do something.
Let me got to the point.
Every time we had a fight, what she just say is "let's break up" or "let's divorce. we don't fit each other".
It comes out from her so easily, and it drives me into deep deep depression.
every time we fight, she goes to her mother's house and stays there and keep me away from there.
I know I'm not up to her standard on some aspect, that makes me even more depressed.
I do make enough money from my job, I don't drink much, I just stays home after work, I think I am normal person, but there is something missing from me to satisfy her, I guess.
she is now staying in her mother's home and telling me let her be free from me. Even divorce.
I don't know what I should do.
I love her so much and I don't want to lose her. I am so empty without her. I am so scared being alone. I even cried in front of her. My every plan for my life is standing on her presence. I can't imagine me being live without her.
But here I am sleeping in empty house with empty mind, dreaming nice way to end my agony.
My wife promised me that she will call me when she is not upset anymore, until then, she said no call, no message, no visit to her mom's home.
I'm going to meet her sooner or later, and I have a hope that we won't actually divorce, but now I am so scared of loosing her.
I can't think straight now. I can't focus on my work.
What should I do? I don't know if there is a marriage counseling or something.
should I let her go? I don't think I can survive from depression.
yes, I had some break up in the past with my ex girlfriends. It drove me into depression but I finally recovered, but I could do that only because I had a hope for meeting better woman.
but now I don't see any hope like that. she is everything I ever wanted and without her, I can't live with my memory of her, memory of happy moments being together.
Is there any Vietnamese woman who can help me out? any advice?
Thanks.