hi people ok ive bean ib south Africa for 3 yrs now what a great place :top I now have a baby girl and am now married to my south African wife we have bean togeather since 2013 but I'm confused can I get a spouse visa as we have not bean togeather for 5 yrs or do I get a relatives visa or do I get another tempery visa till we have bean togeather for 5 yrs then get my spouce visa .