This women was a super attractive manager in a jewelry store before getting married to that rich gy. She was maybe in her early 40's and he was in his late 60's, they met at the gym.
She was full of life but during that marriage he sucked the life out of her, she was left poorer and mentally broken without any money in the long run.
I once dated a "nice Jewish boy" in Encino, Ca.
Nice super talented guy, really a sweet person who was crazy about me for some reason or the other.
Anyways one day I noticed a photo of him on a horse as a young boy.
Cute and all.
I told him , wow, I also have a photo of myself about that same age ( 3 or 4 years old)on a horse. mentioned some man came around house to house in the 50's with his horse and a camera and took photos of kids.
He said,well, that was actually my own horse and I had private ridding lessons.
Right then and there I realized there was a unbalance between us and I wasn't ever going to be less then my partner.
Had to break up with him, never going set myself up to be the one who needed help or someone's money to get by.
Call me a fool or whatever but those sorts of relationships are always one sided in the end.
Never want to hear someone say, look what i did for you or you'd be nowhere without me, etc.