I have a silly love problem here that drives me nuts. I'm dating a Malaysian Chinese guy for 3 years to be exact. I met him here in the Philippines and currently his still living and supporting a telecom project. Well, for past 3 years everything goes well, he let me met her family, parents and siblings in Malaysia. And I let him met my family and relatives too and my DAUGHTER. His 32 years old and a bachelor. I am 28 years old. I can feel his effort and sincerity towards my family and my daughter and yes I am expecting for something. Something that i think were on the same page. I ask him about the marriage thing. In my surprised he told me this " I Don't have answer for that right now" . He still unsure if how far we can go, he still unsure about my daughter if he really can accept her and will treat her as his own. He still unsure for him self. In short his still unsure for everything to the point that even living/ staying together he doesn't want.
I Love him enough to the point that I am still hoping that he will change his mind someday. And it hurts me so much. He said that Chinese people were conservative. He can not accept if people will say bad about my daughter.
How is true for the culture in Malaysia?
Does it really never happened there for marrying a single mom with a Chinese Guy?
Or is just HIM?
Hoping for your advices,