I am an American female marrying an Egyptian man in October. Many family and friends are flying from abroad to attend the wedding and reception, but I read that the only recognized marriage is the one performed at the Ministry of justice, and that if we want to have a katb el kitab at a mosque or his family's house, or at the hotel where the reception is, then we have to first get married at the ministry and then do a "mock" katb el kitab later on. Does anyone have any experience with this? I'd like to feel that my ceremony is the real thing, and not just a pretend ceremony where we sign a fake contract. The idea of having 2 katb el kitabs would feel weird, but we're willing to do that if necessary.
Has anyone done this already? How did you explain to the second ma2zoun that you are already married and that the second one is just for show?