Osage, I like your humility. Not a common characteristic these days.
I've been in the states since age nine. That was back in 1957 and had to learn English by just attending school, watching TV and interacting with the other kids. No special classes for foreign kids or anything like that at the time. Just cold turkey. It took me some time as I was somewhat shy. Not any more, I say what's on my mind. I spoke Spanish at home with my family, knowing all the time that I wasn't trading one culture with another. Many of the imigrant children tried so hard to lose their identity and become Americans. I was not one of them. However I assimilated very well in the US and still continue to be who I am. Two, of my aunts in Ecuador married Germans. There were three actually, because one of my aunts became a widow and married another German. Those men never lost their accents but were fluent in Spanish. They lived amongst Ecuadoreans and seldom got together with other Germans. One of them was active in the Nazi party and was in Ecuador for along time, but that's another story. My point is that foreigners at that time integrated in Ecuadorean society rather easily. They didn't form cliques, English speaking ghettos and lived in a special bubble, expecting everyone to accomodate them. (sounds familiar?) Now there's a bunch of people in Ecuador with German last names and they don't stick out. So if I sound unkind I don't mean to be. It just irks me to see such an arrogant crowd demanding so much, with a short memory of the demands that they placed on imigrants in the US. Now the tables have turned. Poetic justice perhaps.