Childhood psychiatric disorders – Types and symptoms

Hello all
My son now hes 3 years old he was fine eating but once my nanny left and that was one year back he stopped eating normally n by force he do
He keeps only on eating milk fries custard criassant thats it rarely when he eats our normal food
Any ideas I begin to give him appetizer medecine with multi vitamine

You might not like this,but i have to say not to use any kind of medicine as medicines are not designed for every human bron or to be born,it is mostly developed on estimate by testing on given sample of population and they might not be representing the entire population.Also every human is different and God as created natural healing processes in living beings.it takes time but works perfectly.

moreover ,i feel you child needs you attention.spend time with him,take him out on walk,beach,distract him from being alone as it will cause mental stress to him leading to feeding problems.He being happy from inside and knowing you care for him ,he will eat anything you will feed him.feed from you hads,he will have you in his memory and love when he grows up.

Try using natural food products. Its good he is taking Milk,as most children hesitate to drink.

fries are not health,as frying increases calories and also makes the child develop a bad habit of eating more and more fried food and they become fans of fast food which is corporate developed food and involves use of several preservatives which even the bacteria dosnt consider eating then why should humans eat it.

custard should be less fed as again it involves mixtures of chemicals to give a desired taste and refined sugar which is not good in general even for adults.

do not allow him junk food.or too much of fried and packed food,introduce some new fruits to him,like blackberries,raspberries something he hasnt eaten or has no idea of.

you see children today are more attracted to the foods are condemed because they are made to satisfy the taste optimally and not the health in the long term.

It looks as if he grew close with the nanny and once she left he is having withdrawal symptoms. A parent should never let their child get so close with a person who is not a relative as they will not be around forever, it's up to the parents to be the caregiver and bond with them. I agree, your child needs more one on one attention and build up a trust with you. All  of the foods you have described are not giving him the nutritional needs he must have to be healthy. Keep on encouraging him to eat and make eating fun by introducing fruits and veggies in a fun way not by force.

Unfortunately as a working women I found myself after 40 days leaving him with this nanny so 8 hrs both of them facing each other but now been 1 year since she went away n he changed to what hes now:( hes refusing any normal food

Before I put my two cents on the matter, I'd like to lay down a few  points.
1- Kids appetites change by age and mood.
2- Kids eat eventually when they're really hungry.
3- Kids should follow an organized system of food delivery.
4- Kids could lose appetite after a newborn, a family member leaving or anything that will cause any kind of stress or anxiety.

Here's my experience with this matter. My kids eat almost anything now and I have no problem with them eating whatever food we offer them. How did we get there?
1- Food is served at certain times. If a kid refuses to eat, he/she will not be able to eat till the next meal.
2- We offer healthy foods as much as possible. So no shortcuts on that, healthy means choosing wisely what to cook for a balanced meal.
3- Salad is compulsory. Not necessarily in big amounts but it has to be there in one meal at least.
4- We don't give in to kids crying or refusing food. We just eat our food and let the kids eat theirs. If they don't eat, we don't let them leave the table. They have to sit and watch us eat.
5- We give surprises every once in a while (ice cream, sweets .. etc.) as a kind of reward.
6- We trick the kids into exercise by letting them do some thing that will make them hungry (playing, working ... etc.)

Just try some of the points above if you can. It is very important to be PERSISTENT and CONSISTENT otherwise you kid will be in control.

egypt beauty@ you need to show him that you love and care for him. maybe he need fresh air,take him to a nice park in the evening.Buy him something he likes.Bring excitement in his life,make him smile and laugh,get recognized to his mind. He is being too lonely and needs attention.

Try to avoid watching television when you are home,and do some creative activity or something he likes to do.these things will take time to get him right.

Kids eventually eat when they get hungry as long as u ban the unhealthy snacks seen that with my little sister's kid, stop giving him the medication it will effect his health later on , most appetizer medication work on the central nervous system )الجهاز العصبي المركزي ) which is not something u wanna mess with at all

i read in one of ur posts that he is hyper , well u can use that for ur advantage , let him move alot stop junk food - snacks - pepsi ..etc and he will eventually get hungry and eat whatever u offer from healthy food , i appreciate that ur a working woman but u really need to create quality time with ur kid to make up for the absence of his beloved maid which he got attached to