Hi everyone. I'm new to this forum and this is my first thread. I was born in Ecuador and lived in Guayaquil most of my life, although I lived almost 10 years in North Carolina, which I consider home.
I don't want to sound like a Debbie Downer here, or discourage people from moving to Ecuador, as I understand it all depends on tastes and the lifestyle every person wishes to have.
What I can tell you is that the saying "the grass is always greener on the other side" is more than true. I'm amazed at how many Americans want to move here. Their reasons to leave the states and choose a third world country that develops at the speed of a turtle as their permanent residence is beyond me. I wouldn't move to Bolivia or Venezuela even if the airline ticket was offered to me as a gift.
Ecuador can be a nice country to live if you have tons of money (you can make a very decent living with $3,000 steady dollars every month, that's good for a family of 2). With children is way more difficult, because good schools run from $500 each month, and that without including uniforms, materials, books and fees for different activities. There are also public schools, but not at all like in the States, the system here is corrupt, students in the public system are always in the middle of sex and drug scandals, I mean big time scandals involving death threats to teachers and videos of sexy parties uploaded in youtube that no parent would like to see their kids in.
Health is only good if you can afford private doctors and hospitals, social security is a big joke here and people have to wait up to 6 months and sometimes more to see a specialist or get an MRI, for example. There are HMO's too, but they sound more like a rip-off and I never had coverage with any of them to be able to tell my personal story.
It's funny because most people here would kill to be able to live and work legally in the United States so they can run away from Ecuador as fast as they can. This is the land of NO opportunities, most people with university degrees are driving cabs because there are no decent jobs available, and the minimum wage (which is a monthly salary, not an hourly rate) is $350 dollars. I met a woman who worked steadily for the past 40 years with the minimum wage. When she retired, her pension came out to be $200 dollars a month! Talking about jokes.
To buy a home may be cheaper here than in the states, but do you really want to live in a country where everyone is looking for a way to rip you off or charge you three times more because you're a "gringo"? Renting is the same or even higher than in the states, which is ridiculous taking into consideration the $350 dollar monthly salary that most people survive on.
Groceries are even more expensive here, we don't have Sunday grocery coupons coming with the newspaper, or "buy one get one free" promotions. At Harris Teeter, I could afford way more stuff than in Mi Comisariato, which with Tía are the most economic supermarkets in town.
If I had the money, I wouldn't invest ONE PENNY in this country, the laws are designed to protect evil people. People often don't respect the law because for petty crimes like not paying the rent or not fulfilling a contract there's no prison or fines, people can go on with their lives after they have screwed yours.
I miss the goodwill and generosity of the American people, the peace of mind that I had living in a small American town without the fear of an "express kidnapping" or an armed robbery or someone breaking into my house. I miss the fall in North Carolina and how everything is so beautiful and organized. The perspective is different after living most of my life in a third world country, you guys are blessed and I wish I could be in your place. I wouldn't want to come back here, never, ever again.