Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because of disputes with the landlord she was forced to sell the restaurant and lost her savings. I helped her out with the legal fees and when we were together I paid all our entertainment and travelling expenses. When I returned home I agreed to support her monthly ($800), because, she just lost her restaurant and didn't have a job. I also did it, cause I wanted her to have the time to chat with me online. Staying at home for 4 months doing nothing is not for her, so she decided to work again, which I can't blame her. Lately, she been asking for more money to start her off a fresh in her new career. She's currently living with her family, but, she want to live on her own ... new apartment, furnitures, moped, etc. We don't regularly chat online like before because of her job and the time zones different, and it irks me that she's asking for more money. I'll be honest, can't help thinking about stories of Vietnamese girls cleaning bank accounts of their Western boyfriends. We have discuss marriage but I have yet to ask her. So mine financially supporting her is out of heart not through any obligations. Now, that she have a job, I am considering terminating the support. I am planning to return back again in 4 months to make a decision on the next step in our relationship. What's your thoughts and experiences?