I see a while back talk about Internet Dating, one good thing is that you can ' research ' the family, ( although I was looking for an older woman without kids, ( she sprung that on me later ), it would have been very rare to find a VN woman, who you would look at twice , who didn't have kids, or hadn't already been married ), be careful of the photo's, many are Photoshopped or are very old. My wife was helping her 25 yr old widowed niece try and find a Foreigner husband, and she used an old photo of herself, not the niece, but cunningly, ( or accidentally?? ), had another profile on the same website with her own photo , good way to find out who the ' players/users ' were on that website, many just wanted free sex when they came to VN for a holiday.
Same old questions, How much do you earn is a good one, or do you own a house, but that can also be about security if they were to go and live in your country, but most VN's can't get their heads around the Mortgage issue.
( Vietnam, not the place for an introvert ).