We are 2 guys. One Cameroonian and one South African. It has taken over 3 months to get a visa from the SA Embassy in Cameroon. They come up with so many excuses and if you don't persist - or get so tired after the 11th visit - they hope you will go away and nothing will happen.
We are in a relationship and plan to get married soon so that we can both live in Cape Town in peace. As a Cameroonian he will be jailed for a minimum of 5 years because he gay. So he needs to keep this very quiet so that his life is not in danger. Please help with your best advice.