Hi everyone
I have what may seem like a really odd question coming from a Danish person.... What's it like living in Denmark? I have been out of the country for 15 years (lived in the UK, France and now Italy). I have married an Englishman and we have a son together -and we are now contemplating going back to Denmark to set up our own business.
However, my husband has misgivings about Denmark and we are trying to explore of they are "real" or "imaginary". When we have visited the country, the Danes that he has been in contact with have in his vies had tendencies to "small-scale racism" (i.e. they have let out questions like "Where are you really from?" (my husband is 75% white english and 25% carabean so has oolive skin rather than the pasty danish skin). He also finds that the danes are keen to stress how important "Danishness" is to them -i.e. it's a homogeneous society which retains its qualities because there aren't many foreigners. This does of course NOT add up to a country where he feels that as a foreigner he could be accepted.
So I'd like to ask: What are your experiences? Do the danes accept you as you are -warts and all- without trying to change you into little danes? Are you finding that the Danes promote danishness as "gods gift" to humanity, rather than check if the danish solution to an issue is Actually the best?
Any thoughts you have are very weelcome -and please do not worry about me being offended if your view of Denamrk is not flattering -I'd rather know the truth!
Thank you very much for any insights you can give us.
Have a good day,
Pipi