In our Arabic culture the bridegroom goes to the bride and not the other way round. This guy seems enjoying seducing a teenager who grown up in an environment that don't lie. This guy dares not tell his parents what 's on his mind. I ask this poor little girl have u asked yourself what the options are if u travel to him. did u ask how much money he holds to support a decent time with you. I like what other guys said above but I must not ignore two important things : A young person finds life easy but unfortunatley it isn't. if u want to risk it bcoz of lov Why doesn't he risk it himself and fly to u. At best I would suggest that he transfers 5000 dollars to u if he really loves u so in case wind blows against the ship you can come back home one piece . By the way what he calls fake marriage he means no marriage remember he is no more than a teenager still knows nothing about his community culture and restrictions. I hope I am mistaken. God bless